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Legislation was passed in 2011 allowing adult adoptees from Rhode Island to request a copy of their original birth certificate. Kathleen decided to submit her request.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\"><strong>As she opened the envelope, she was most surprised to learn that she had a different name at birth<\/strong>. It didn\u2019t fit the image of the woman she had become. Then the details of her entrance into this world started to come into focus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">She learned she was adopted through an agency called Children\u2019s Friend. She learned about her biological parents. She learned she had a full biological brother. <strong>She also learned that four of the neighborhood kids she\u2019d grown up with were actually relatives. <\/strong>These connections brought a new and deeper meaning to fond childhood memories.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">One day she mustered the courage to call the work phone of her biological mother. She had decided to leave a message there so that she wasn\u2019t disrupting anyone\u2019s life, should her mother have family members who didn\u2019t know this detail about her past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Kathleen kept her expectations in check. She was pleasantly surprised to receive a call back. <strong>As she learned more about her biological family, and met a new cast of relatives, thanks to the ubiquity of social media and the internet, her appreciation for her adoptive parents and their love grew, too<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">She gained a new perspective on the opportunities her parents \u2013 both biological and adoptive \u2013 had given her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Children\u2019s Friend is a small but essential part of Kathleen\u2019s story. 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